Monday 25 July 2011

Should we go ahead with it????

Hi fellas,

My name is Sandeep Kumar and this is probably the first time i'm blogging and yes, let me confess i'm really not sure how far i will go with it, but it seems to be a good idea to vent out or express your feelings or may be help someone else in your own situation. The main question for today's old teenagers(late 20s), should we go ahead with a girl who comes to you and then makes you fall in love with her and then go to someone else(may be her Ex or whatever). What are we supposed to do in this kind of scenarios. I'm sure answers are many but the only thing that i important to people like us is to be with someone who take care of you. And yes, let me confess, our testosterone is oozing ;) but does that mean go to any x y z and punch it out???
I'm some kind of person who have done practically everything in life that includes being a mess for my self and others as well. I have my Ex's getting married( of course to someone else) and i stand aside just for a mere congratulations. There has been girls who will come and go and i'm sure everyone understands this. But what if you want to stick to some and get married to her and something happens( fights etc) and there is a distance in between you and you come in a situation that you cannot live with her nor you can leave her. Should we listen to our brains and find someone else who is better in understanding your situation and your needs or should we follow our heart and stick to the same person with whom we spent the best time of our lives. Should we be together only in good time and leave the person in our bad time or should we continue with an already lost battle.
I'm sure this is a never ending chicken and egg question. What should we follow, Heart or Brain? Clever people will say, be selective according to the scenarios. But hey, Do anyone know why Mahabharata and Ramayana battle was fought. It was due to Draupadi and Sita(may be vica versa, not good with mythology).
May be this seems to be something from which most of goes through and but majority of us whats to be behind curtains and does not want to express and it may hamper our "manhood". But i'm really not sure what are we when we are alone.
I would like to continue with this session of blogging and express more things and experiences as they are just oozing out from inside me and i''m sure most of us would love them. But let see how many like it and wants to be a part of this.
Bye for now.

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